Are you a good judge of character?

Absolutely not.

I try like hell to not judge anyone without a fair shake. That also being said, it take an ordained miracle for my anxiety and harm avoidance to allow another person to get close enough for me to interact and get that fair shake.

You see, at my core I am an extremely vulnerable person. I am really good at caring entirely too much.

“That’s not necessarily a bad thing”.

No it’s not, but it is. It causes others to judge me as weak. Then they take full advantage of my kindness, to wit I end up blamed for everything.

This is the entire reason I’ve had to restart life in 2021 with nothing but major depression and a blog to heal empty spaces.